I had little love for the “Mad Men” season opener; it was bound to happen.  For years, I didn’t care much that these people were mostly dreadful – selfish, greedy, gluttonous.  They embodied nearly all the seven deadly sins, but their approach was so stylish and compelling, the husband and I returned week after week to Don, Betty, Roger, Pete, Peggy, and Joan.  Last Sunday, however, they lost me.  In a series of vignettes not connected in any obvious way, the arcs of their characters appear to … [Read more...]

I’ve long been convinced that physical and verbal displays of affection and support are more valuable to a child’s success than any other device we have available as parents.  This is purely based on assumption and anecdote - and it’s a careful balance.  The only child smothered with attention and praised as perfect, regardless of evidence to the contrary, can often be annoying.  But show me a well-adjusted, confident problem-solver, who isn’t afraid of reaching out to/for help, and I’ll show … [Read more...]

This weekend I was on the sidelines in Riverside, California watching soccer, soccer, and more soccer.  Other parents joined me screaming at the girls during the games -- mostly encouragement, some instruction, occasionally underneath the breath, “Ah, you shoulda had that.”  We’re not convinced they hear anything we say but we say it nonetheless.  We’re enthusiastic spectators.  As parents, we’re doing the best we can.  There’s room for improvement; we know that.  But perfection?  Doing it … [Read more...]